It should come as no surprise I’d find my way round’ to interviewing Brady Rymer. I have championed his Love Me For Who I Am CD on this blog a few times and even named an award after him for the Best Kids CD not nominated for a Grammy (First annual “Rymer” this year awarded to Frances England.) But I digress… Upon listening this seems a pretty direct song. Picky Eater is really a universal song about those who choose not to eat many of life’s great foods and how when on a plate they “should not mingle”. It’s got a bit of a funky reggae rhythm and it’s quite infectious in its joy of not eating certain delectable dishes. Unless it comes to dessert which has no sort of restrictions. Just like my own children. They might not like dinner but they always have room for ice cream. The great thing about this song is that it’s origin lay a bit deeper than expected. Seems Brady has been playing regular gigs at Celebrate the Children School in New Jersey which is a school for kids with autism, aspergers and other related disorders. He thought he should write songs for that audience, that they could own. But also the idea those songs also be universal. So with the help of the school (they sent a list of song titles) he came up with songs to be on the CD, Picky Eater being one of them. By intertwining his experience with his own kids (one a picky eater) , his childhood and the song title he had been sent Picky Eater was born. This isn’t his usual way of writing songs, not that he has a set songwriting style. Sometimes it starts with a hook and sometimes strumming a guitar sorting out big ideas while humming. He had never before started with a title and worked from there. When these titles arrived he grabbed his guitar and excitedly got to working. It was a nice change of pace and with Picky Eater he developed an over abundance of material. Once he gets to writing he usually gets on a roll. In this case he ends up having to shorten the song. Now that he has these songs he heads over to Budd Lake, New Jersey where his friend, musician and teacher at Celebrate the Children School, Dan Myers, has his studio (Dirt Floor Studios). Dan also helped compile the list of song titles along with school founder Monica Osgood (they both got writing credits). The two of them (Brady and Dan) get to recording the majority of the songs with just the two of them playing all the instruments (you should be impressed). Only adding other musicians when necessary. Brady recorded his vocal track live while he played an electric guitar. He felt recording his vocals while playing helps give the songs a “live” feeling. They used a drum sampler called EZ Drummer to give them a grove and added the live percussion with Dan Sadownick later. Brady worked on a couple songs at a time for this recording, traveling from his home in Long Island, NY to Budd Lake,New Jersey. I’d say the travel was well worth it as the song turned out quite infectious. The brilliance of the song is it’s universal appeal but knowing the origin is anything but universal. Anyone who ever had a child say no at a dinner table will empathize with this song. I should mention that Brady has a brand new CD coming out this year called Just Say Hi! and can also be found playing bass with the Laurie Berkner band not to mention he has gotten back together with the band From Good Homes who play a few shows a year. Do yourself a favor and check out the Love Me for Who I Am website, listen to the songs (Picky Eater is second) and go buy the CD. It’s an amazing piece of work celebrating those who don’t always fit “the norm” but deserve to be heard and celebrated!
https://bradyrymerandthelittlebandthatcould.bandcamp.com/track/picky-eater
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