A couple of years ago a fellow blogger and friend James Zahn (The Rock Father) invited me to join a Dad Blogger group on Facebook. A man by the name of Oren Miller (A Blogger and a Father) welcomed me to the group he had started as a way for dads who blog to talk about their families, exchange ideas, argue a bit, offer support to fellow fathers and bloggers and most of all recognize the positive force dads are in society. The only rule in the group is “Don’t be a Dick.” Well this past week the man who had the brilliant idea to gather dad bloggers of all types died of stage four lung cancer. He leaves behind a wife and two children . I can only offer this. Thank you Oren. You inspired and touched the lives of so many people and so many that never even had the chance to meet you, myself included. You challenged people to be better by your words and actions. I leave you all with an Old Irish Blessing.
May the road rise up to meet you.
May the wind always be at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
and rains fall soft upon your fields.
And until we meet again,
May God hold you in the palm of His hand.
You can donate to Oren’s Family by clicking HERE.
It’s nearly Father’s Day and I thought I’d run my personal blog roll of the Dad’s who I read with some frequency. Those that inform, educate, humor and write some really good stuff…
Out With The Kids – Jeff Bogle is the guy I started reading first for kids music and watched his site grow from a kindie centric site to a very well rounded family focused webzone. His monthly music podcast is one of the best around and always family friendly.
The Rock Father – James Zahn is a friend, father, and all around family resource for entertainment, toys and music. He profiled me as one of his “ Rock Fathers” for Father’s Day in June and made me sound pretty damn cool. A page I check regularly and you should too.
How To Be A Dad – If Charlie Capen and Andy Herald’s blog were a baseball team they would be the Yankees. A benevolent and kind version that helps other dad bloggers along and puts out some really funny and relevant parent relating stuff.
Dad and Buried – Mike Julianelle writes the stuff I would if I were to write more about my family which is not necessary since he’s writing. Very funny man with a perspective on kids and family I truly appreciate.
A Blogger and a Father – Oren Miller is the one who started the Dad Blogger group on Facebook I belong to. At least once a week I find myself laughing hysterically or thinking profoundly from stuff posted there. Oren’s a very able writer who just found out he has cancer. His blog post on this is… I have no words you just need to read it.
There’s probably a few I could add to the list but this is a fine starting point. Go support a dad blogger today!
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The other day on Facebook a really good conversation thread about Kickstarter was started by Jeff Bogle of Out With The Kids fame. He was inquiring why musicians needed to raise so much money to make a CD these days. Many great replies from Zooglobble, The Rock Father and others. It was a very valid question. Why is it, it takes 10K to make a CD. I know a couple things about making a CD having produced 2 in the last 5 years (and not much more). While making music is free… Recording it can be a bit expensive. Unless your a talented engineer as well as musician (see Todd McHatton) and have your own studio (which is a sizable investment in itself) you are going to have to pay someone to record your band. Now how much depends on who you hire and how long it takes. Do you pay a set rate or are you paying hourly? Is the band ready to play the songs? Do you need to hire musicians and or singers? How much to Mix? Master? Are you traveling the recording studio (I know a lot of folks travel to record with Dean Jones) or is it local. Are you paying for a producer or self producing? How much does he charge (I’ve been quoted 5k for a producer). The whole idea of making a record is to make the best music you can and get it to your fans and make some money so you can do it again. Phew! Recording is a lot of fun but paying for it sucks. Recording costs ranges from 30 – 100 dollars an hour. You can get weekend rates, some places have a flat fee and others discount for pre-paying for large blocks of time. Know this. You get what you pay for and a good engineer is priceless. No matter how good you are live recording is a completely different animal and the guy recording you is critical. Know your budget and expect some costs you didn’t consider. Know that mistakes will be made and re-recording is a reality. Some bands record the bass and drums and then lay tracks over that. Poochamungas usually record as a band with my vocals and guitar as a scratch and then fill them in later. This works for us because it’s more energetic, efficient and cost effective. Then we add vocals, additional guitars, etc. Then after recording there’s the oh so important mixing part. Some people specialize in only mixing. This is also critical to your sound so get someone who knows what they’re doing here as well. Know that hearing in things in the studio is different than hearing things for gigs. All of the above takes time, effort and money. This leads to success or failure. Mistakes usually means spending more time and money. Lets not call them failures but learning experiences. Which then leads to success. Which happens when your creating art. Which is what making music is… ART. I know very little but I know this. If your goal is to just sell records you get lousy art. But if you go out to make great art you may get to sell some records (Which by the way for kids artists means pressing CD’s and more money). Making great art takes time and time costs money. For some it cost more than others. Is 10k unreasonable. Depends on the perspective.
We just had a pretty amazing day and got a few cool toys plus might have a few leads for future gigs. Thanks Rock Father for leading the way and thanks Chicago Toy and Game Fair.
Finished up with appropriate lunch!
This is something a little different than the norm here at A Man, A Band and a Plan HQ. I have not told the kids yet but the Joyce family is headed to the Chicago Toy and Game fair coming up on November 23rd and 24th. We have garnered a bloggers family pass and I am pretty excited to see my kids reaction when we arrive. Plus it’s happening at one of the coolest places to visit in Chicago… Navy Pier! They’re having a Star Wars luncheon on Saturday which if my kids were interested I would so be there!. I have heard form a reliable source (The Rock Father strikes again) that this was a really good time last year. To add more coolness there will be a man whom I have blogged about before in attendance with his great family. No other than the guy who writes one of my favorite blogs and whom I went with to the Grammys – Mr. Jeff Bogle. You can read about our adventures here which I really should of titled Rolling With the Bogle. Plus there shall be a few other Dad bloggers in attendance whom I’m looking forward to meeting. If your interested in going just click on the picture at the top and it will take you there. Perhaps a kids music stage in the future?
Chciago ParentI hope everyone has a safe and fun holiday today. If your looking for some local kid friendly Halloween tunes go visit The Rock Father article in Chicago Parent at the link below. Poochamungas play at the Trunk or Treat today at 5:30pm at Bethel Commumity Church. Have a great day!