A couple of years ago a fellow blogger and friend James Zahn (The Rock Father) invited me to join a Dad Blogger group on Facebook. A man by the name of Oren Miller (A Blogger and a Father) welcomed me to the group he had started as a way for dads who blog to talk about their families, exchange ideas, argue a bit, offer support to fellow fathers and bloggers and most of all recognize the positive force dads are in society. The only rule in the group is “Don’t be a Dick.” Well this past week the man who had the brilliant idea to gather dad bloggers of all types died of stage four lung cancer. He leaves behind a wife and two children . I can only offer this. Thank you Oren. You inspired and touched the lives of so many people and so many that never even had the chance to meet you, myself included. You challenged people to be better by your words and actions. I leave you all with an Old Irish Blessing.
May the road rise up to meet you.
May the wind always be at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
and rains fall soft upon your fields.
And until we meet again,
May God hold you in the palm of His hand.
You can donate to Oren’s Family by clicking HERE.
It’s nearly Father’s Day and I thought I’d run my personal blog roll of the Dad’s who I read with some frequency. Those that inform, educate, humor and write some really good stuff…
Out With The Kids – Jeff Bogle is the guy I started reading first for kids music and watched his site grow from a kindie centric site to a very well rounded family focused webzone. His monthly music podcast is one of the best around and always family friendly.
The Rock Father – James Zahn is a friend, father, and all around family resource for entertainment, toys and music. He profiled me as one of his “ Rock Fathers” for Father’s Day in June and made me sound pretty damn cool. A page I check regularly and you should too.
How To Be A Dad – If Charlie Capen and Andy Herald’s blog were a baseball team they would be the Yankees. A benevolent and kind version that helps other dad bloggers along and puts out some really funny and relevant parent relating stuff.
Dad and Buried – Mike Julianelle writes the stuff I would if I were to write more about my family which is not necessary since he’s writing. Very funny man with a perspective on kids and family I truly appreciate.
A Blogger and a Father – Oren Miller is the one who started the Dad Blogger group on Facebook I belong to. At least once a week I find myself laughing hysterically or thinking profoundly from stuff posted there. Oren’s a very able writer who just found out he has cancer. His blog post on this is… I have no words you just need to read it.
There’s probably a few I could add to the list but this is a fine starting point. Go support a dad blogger today!
Posted in family, Kindie
Tagged Blogger, Charlie Capen, Dad and Buried, dads, Fathers Day, how to be a dad, James Zahn, Jeff Bogle, kindie, Mike Julianelle, Out with the Kids, Rock Father, The Rock Father, toys
Poochamungas just had a new CD released and took many steps to make sure the public hears about it. I mentioned to our publicist (Elizabeth Waldman Frazier has been amazing) the other day that an article used “kiddie rockers” instead of “kindie rockers.” To which she matter of factly said “If you walked up to someone on the street and asked them what kindie was they’d have no idea what you were talking about.” She is correct in that assessment. We as a community, especially artists do ourselves a disservice by not promoting as much quality kindie product as possible. Poochmungas just released a CD and in terms of community support I say this. It’s never as good as you want but not as bad as you think. Paul Crowe of The Boogers has been awesome. Marc Bazerman been supportive while promoting his own upcoming release. Mr Singer always likes and shares us on FB. Story Laurie and Lori Henriques have help been really helpful as well. Gina McHatton, Kurt Gallagher and Tito Uquillas gave us a nice mention on Facebook. But I think that’s about it. Privately I have had fantastic support. Publicly not nearly as much. My personal belief is that some feel that if they promote others that their work somehow diminishes. Untrue. There is also the fact that working to book gigs, promote gigs, make CD’s, etc. is a vastly time consuming effort to do. One tends to get tunnel vision. Competition and jealousy aspects also come into play… Why did he get played by Kids Place Live and not me? If they buy his CD they won’t buy mine… Get over it. We need to help each other. This genre won’t grow unless we collectively promote the genre and not just yourself. Reach out and help someone who’s music you like or an artist you respect. If you share your fan base those fans aren’t going to abandon you. If someone does promote you remember to promote them back. What does it take to like someone else’s show while meandering through Facebook. Share someone else’s CD release, Kickstarter funding or gig? Write some kind words? When talking about your music use the word kindie (though someone is trying to make 2K off domain rights to kindie.com right now) so it becomes part of peoples vernacular. When someone writes an article not just about you but someone you like or respect. Like and share it. Stefan Shepard has a great blog (and podcast) called ZooGlobble . The Kindie Manifesto is something everyone should read. Do yourself a favor. Read, listen and share what he’s promoting so ZooGlobble grows and with it the platform for us kindie musicians. James Zahn and Jeff Bogle have shed some serious props on their blogs about kindie music. Link them to your website. Promote their stuff so they grow and with it our platform. It’s important you give blogger writers their due so their blogs can grow! Promote the radio shows and blogs that review and play kindie music even when THEY AREN’T PLAYING YOURS, BUT ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY ARE. That’s what I’m trying to do with this blog and on FB and Twitter. All it takes is a few minutes a day by each of us and all kindie artists benefit. It doesn’t mean you still aren’t going to have to work your ass off cause you are. I’m not asking you to start a blog. But take a few minutes a day and get out of the tunnel and see the whole picture. Don’t like my music? That’s OK. Find that which you do. There’s a big bright kindie world ahead of us if only we all help it along. Cause if we don’t, who will? I have listed some of my favorites blogs and Radio shows that support the genre below…
Blogs –Out With The Kids, The Rock Father, Gooney Birds Kids, Kids Can Grove and the afore mentioned ZooGlobble.
Radio – Kids Place Live, Imagination Parade, Musical Merry-Go-Round , Spare the Rock Spoil the Child, Kids Corner and The Saturday Morning Cereal Bowl
These are just a few and their are plenty more. Listen. Share. Support.
Posted in family, marketing
Tagged BASF, Elizabeth Waldman Frazier, James Zahn, Jeff Bogle, Kids Place Live, kindie, Kindie Manifesto, Lori Henriques, Marc Bazerman, Story Laurie, The Rock Father, Zooglobble